Buy the same row twice. SKRT lists one 6mm White Gold tennis row under two names, a men's chain and a women's choker/necklace, and from 16 to 24 inches they are the same piece. That makes it the simplest way for two people to match without looking like they planned it in a mirror.

Man wearing the 6mm White Gold tennis chain over a black T-shirt at collarbone length

One row, two listings

The men's listing, this Diamond Tennis Chain in White Gold - 6mm, runs 16, 18, 20, 22 and 24 inches. The women's listing, the Diamond Tennis Choker/ Necklace in White Gold - 6mm, covers the same lengths and adds the true choker sizes, 13, 14 and 15 inches. Both are a single row of round settings, 6mm wide, in heavy 18K gold plating over a 316L stainless steel core, hypoallergenic for most skin, and both close with SKRT's triple-lock latch: one click plus two side clasps. So the choice between them is only about length. Anyone who wants it shorter than 16 inches shops the women's listing.

Same line, different heights

Matching works best when each of you wears the row where it suits your own neckline. On him, 20 inches is the classic spot near the collarbone, and 22 drops it just below. On her, 14 inches is SKRT's signature choker position and 16 rests at the base of the neck. Worn that way, the pair reads as one idea in two places, and nobody looks like a copy of the other. If you both like it at the collarbone, that works too: 18 inches is the collarbone length on SKRT's women's chart, and 20 on the men's.

Woman with curly blonde hair wearing the 6mm White Gold tennis choker high on the neck with a black strapless lace top

What the photos show

Put the two photos side by side and the same row behaves differently. On him, over a black T-shirt, it lies on fabric and reads as a bright line framing the neckline. On her, at choker height above a strapless top, it sits on skin and reads as a ring of light right under the jaw. That contrast is the reason to share one piece instead of buying two different designs: the match is exact, and the effect still feels personal.

Bring the wrists in

The bracelet works the same way. The Diamond Tennis Bracelet in White Gold - 6mm is one bracelet listed for men and for women in the same sizes, 6, 6.5, 7, 8 and 9 inches. Each of you measures your own wrist just below the bone, adds 0.75 to 1 inch for the relaxed fit tennis bracelets like, and sizes up between two numbers. A couple can match neck and wrist, or split it, with one wearing the chain and the other the bracelet, for a link that is easier to miss and nicer to notice.

Sizing two necks

Measure each of you separately with string, at the height where you want the row to sit, then compare with the SKRT Size Guide. A 6mm row is wide, so between two lengths choose the longer for both of you. Do not size one person from the other's chain. Necks and shoulders differ more than people expect, and the guide keeps separate charts for men's chains and for women's chokers and necklaces.

Two pieces, one routine

Keep a shared habit: chains go on after cologne, perfume or lotion has dried, and they come off before the pool, the hot tub, the ocean or a long hot shower. Sweat, rain and hand washing are fine. Each piece gets its own pouch, even if they live in the same drawer, so two rows of settings never rub. Wipe both with a soft microfiber cloth after a night out. The monthly clean is on the Care Instructions page. Each piece is backed by SKRT's Lifetime Guarantee.

Quick answers

Is the women's 6mm tennis choker the same as the men's chain?

Yes. From 16 to 24 inches it is the same White Gold row under two listings. The women's version also comes in 13, 14 and 15 inches.

Should couples wear their chains at the same length?

No need. Matching the piece matters more than matching the drop. Pick the length that suits each neckline.

Can a man order from the women's listing?

Yes. At 16 inches and up it is the identical chain, so order from whichever listing has the length you want.

One row, worn by two. See the Diamond Tennis Chain in White Gold - 6mm.

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